I have a question for anyone who is familiar with AA. I've (F) been to a few meetings and a man, who I've talked to at some meetings asked to add me on Facebook, and messaged me to go out for coffee after a meeting. Now I know there's a lot of going out for coffee with fellow AA people but my boyfriend thinks it's inappropriate of him to do and thinks he's 13th stepping. I haven't seen the guy say anything inappropriate and I'm not sure if my boyfriend is just getting jealous(?) or if it is actually inappropriate. Can someone help me out here? UPDATE: I went to a meeting and said I was looking for a sponsor and to connect with more people, specifically more women and get some phone numbers. I told the guy that I'd prefer if we went out for coffee in a group since I'm so new to everyone and everything and that I didn't want to offend him or anything, so I think I handled that okay. I just don't want it to be awkward :/ but I think it's okay to establish some boundaries.