i'm about to hit three weeks sober, but my boyfriend of 5+ yrs still actively heavy drinks around me and it's been a lot harder to deal with. :/ i feel really hurt, considering i almost lost my life recently due to alcoholism and he refuses to stop (his words, not mine). is it fair to want your partner to stop too?? or is it unfair to want someone to change their routine for you?? i'm not sure and i'm really struggling :,)