My partner and I have decided to get sober from alcohol and weed. This year she got diagnosed with epilepsy after having a first seizure in February. This past weekend, she had a cluster of four tonic clonics and had to be hospitalized. Now that she is on much more medication, we are going to take care of her liver. And everyone has also told us weed and alcohol lowers the seizure threshold. Her health is more important than anything, and we cannot have more seizures. So getting sober is a step in the right direction for her, and I’m choosing to do it too to support her. I’m an almost daily drinker and she’s a daily weed smoker, so this will be a big adjustment for us, but I’m glad we are on the journey together. Yesterday over dinner we made a list of things we could do instead of our usual smoking and drinking rituals. We were trying to think of things we did as kids, because we were sober then. Do yall have a list like that? And if so, what is on it?n